أنيسة بنت بنجامين

أنيسة بنت بنجامين http://anisabintbenjamin.multiply.com/ أس سلام عليكم ورهمتلاه وبركاته (As Salaamu alaikum wa rahmatullaahi wa barakaatuhu) Walhamdulillaah, my page have grown and has become a place of peace for me to come to for reminders and I am happy to share and benefit from you as well InshaAllaah. However I do have some request for those who visit: I only accept contacts whose page I may benefit from Islamically, leaving that exception limited to females who are interested in Islam, however, customers may purchase from this site. For purchasing The Original Hand Crocheted Khufi and for more information look under "Market" on this page. About me: Gaining as much beneficial knowledge as I can in this dunya about this beautiful deen of Islam. Not just being careful from whom I take knowledge from, but careful of implementing knowledge that comes to me without proofs, so if you have some naseehah, apply proofs InshaAllaah, other than that....I'm a good listener. I crochet and I try to stay in the home as much as possible. Our blessings are in the home sisters (smiles), I have to remind myself of this as well. May Allaah reward us all in our efforts to please Him, Aameen. I do not watch TV/Movies or listen to music but don't mind sharing my views on them. "It is not allowed to take pictures of beings that have souls, a rule the compasses cameras and other instruments, with the exception of pictures that are necessary, such as a passport or identity photo." - from fatawa islamiyah...and as far as music, from the same trusted source; "It is not allowed to listen to singing and playing musical instruments, since it diverts the listener from the remembrance of Allaah and from prayer, and because hearing it sickens and hardens the heart. Both the Clear Book of Allaah and the Trustworthy Sunnah His Messenger (SalAllaahu alaihe wa sallam) prove its prohibition. Allaah Almighty says in Surah Luqman ayah 6: "And of Mankind is he who purchases (Lawd Al-Hadith) idle talk to mislead from the Path of Allaah without knowledge." The majority of scholars of Tafsir as well as others have explained that Lawd Al- Hadith refers to singing and musical instruments. In his Sahih, Al- Bukhari recorded that the Prophet (SalAllaahu alaihe wa sallam) said: "There will be from my Nation a people who will deem fornication, silk (for men), alcohol, and music to be permissible". [Al-Bukhari no. 5590] We ask Allaah to guide and facilitate all of the Muslims to what is right and to protect us from the causes which anger Him." Aameen. -Proof taken from Fatawa Islamiyah- Ibn Baz [My Words].."Some may still argue the fact of "naats" or "nasheeds" to be acceptable, or why can't they be if they speak of nothing but good of the religion, which sounds good but we have to worship Allaah as He has legislated for us to, not to add on or take away even if the adding on appears to be an elevation of worship which is actually an innovation and for every innovation is a going astray and the end result of going astray leads to the hellfire, so just because something sounds good to do regarding the deen doesn't mean that it is good without proving it to be a way that Allaah has legislated for us to worship Him, with AUTHENTIC proofs (Quran and Sunnah) and all of that being borderline and finding loopholes(you think you found) only leaves doubt in your heart and doubt comes from the shaitan who is the greatest enemy to mankind and he sits and waits at every point of our lives for the opportunity to lead us astray. HE IS YOUR ENEMY! Don't help your enemy defeat you by following him! So please be careful of what you do here in this life while passing through to our final abode because in the end all the songs you know, sport stats, movie titles and producers and nonsense; any of these worldly waste of times are not going to save you from the fire because at that time, you are only left with your deeds. So be VERY careful what you do here InshaAllaah.None of us are an exception to falling into these things, May Allaah protect us from falling into these things or anything that displeases Him And May Allaah place and/or keep us on a path that will lead us to Jennah, Aameen." Allaah, The Exalted, states: "And I (Allaah) created not the jinn and mankind except that they should worship Me (Alone)." (Noble Quran 51:56) All of that being said, I plan on worshipping Allaah Alone and learning this Deen for the rest of my time passing through this dunya and my advice to you is to help and strive with me InshaAllaah. May Allaah bless us all with beneficial knowledge, Aameen. <object height="385" width="480"><param name="allowScriptAccess" value="never"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/p/CDB7C105213C85EE?hl=en_US&fs=1"><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"><embed allowscriptaccess="never" src="http://www.youtube.com/p/CDB7C105213C85EE?hl=en_US&fs=1" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowfullscreen="true" height="385" width="480"></object> <object height="385" width="480"><param name="allowScriptAccess" value="never"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/p/4CA748C93ADA164E?hl=en_US&fs=1"><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"><embed allowscriptaccess="never" src="http://www.youtube.com/p/4CA748C93ADA164E?hl=en_US&fs=1" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowfullscreen="true" height="385" width="480"></object> <object height="385" width="480"><param name="allowScriptAccess" value="never"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/p/03928C6729FE2E6C?hl=en_US&fs=1"><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"><embed allowscriptaccess="never" src="http://www.youtube.com/p/03928C6729FE2E6C?hl=en_US&fs=1" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowfullscreen="true" height="385" width="480"></object> <object height="385" width="480"><param name="allowScriptAccess" value="never"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/p/2D1FD8C10A77378D?hl=en_US&fs=1"><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"><embed allowscriptaccess="never" src="http://www.youtube.com/p/2D1FD8C10A77378D?hl=en_US&fs=1" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowfullscreen="true" height="385" width="480"></object> <object height="360" width="480"><param name="allowScriptAccess" value="never"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/z1NYpIT1h68?version=3&hl=en_US&rel=0"><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"><embed allowscriptaccess="never" src="http://www.youtube.com/v/z1NYpIT1h68?version=3&hl=en_US&rel=0" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowfullscreen="true" height="360" width="480"></object> <object height="360" width="480"><param name="allowScriptAccess" value="never"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/ZeBbp1q-_eU?version=3&hl=en_US&rel=0"><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"><embed allowscriptaccess="never" src="http://www.youtube.com/v/ZeBbp1q-_eU?version=3&hl=en_US&rel=0" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowfullscreen="true" height="360" width="480"></object> <object height="315" width="560"><param name="allowScriptAccess" value="never"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/4G9SEVIqHDQ?version=3&hl=en_US&rel=0"><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"><embed allowscriptaccess="never" src="http://www.youtube.com/v/4G9SEVIqHDQ?version=3&hl=en_US&rel=0" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowfullscreen="true" height="315" width="560"></object> <object height="315" width="560"><param name="allowScriptAccess" value="never"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/DZojefLYWDk?version=3&hl=en_US&rel=0"><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"><embed allowscriptaccess="never" src="http://www.youtube.com/v/DZojefLYWDk?version=3&hl=en_US&rel=0" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowfullscreen="true" height="315" width="560"></object> Wed, 16 May 2012 18:49:51 -0000 Wed, 16 May 2012 18:16:00 -0000 أنيسة بنت بنجامين http://multiply.com/mu/anisabintbenjamin/logo http://anisabintbenjamin.multiply.com/ 100 100 mufti of saudi arabia stressed that marriage is not mere fulfillment of desires, rather its purpose is security, love and stability. http://anisabintbenjamin.multiply.com/journal/item/447/mufti_of_saudi_arabia_stressed_that_marriage_is_not_mere_fulfillment_of_desires_rather_its_purpose_is_security_love_and_stability. <h2> </h2> The Respected Mufti and President of The Committee of Senior Scholars and The President of The Standing Committee for Islamic Research and Fatawa, Abdul Azeez Ala Sheikh stressed that marriage is not mere fulfillment of desires, rather its purpose is security, love and stability. He mentioned: Some Muslims posses a misconception regarding marriage, in opposition to its correct and actual purpose.  Several people view marriage as mere fulfillment of desires, and they complete the Islamic contracts for doing so, but their intention is neither stability nor continuation, rather they wed with the hidden intention of divorce.  Meaning, they wed for a specified amount of time, even if they don’t inform of this intended time period, but they marry for the purpose of fulfilling a desire and they don’t intend to comfort the female (through stability), instead they consider marriage mere pleasure that will lead to separation and replacement o... http://anisabintbenjamin.multiply.com/journal/item/447/mufti_of_saudi_arabia_stressed_that_marriage_is_not_mere_fulfillment_of_desires_rather_its_purpose_is_security_love_and_stability. Wed, 16 May 2012 18:16:00 -0000 Good Companionship and Bad Companionship http://anisabintbenjamin.multiply.com/music/item/1270/Good_Companionship_and_Bad_Companionship By Hasan As http://anisabintbenjamin.multiply.com/music/item/1270/Good_Companionship_and_Bad_Companionship Tue, 15 May 2012 02:27:57 -0000 What's Better For The Student Of Knowledge, Seeking Knowledge At Night Or Praying The Night Prayer? http://anisabintbenjamin.multiply.com/journal/item/445/Whats_Better_For_The_Student_Of_Knowledge_Seeking_Knowledge_At_Night_Or_Praying_The_Night_Prayer <a class="select" href="http://31097.multiply.com/journal/item/111/Whats_Better_For_The_Student_Of_Knowledge_Seeking_Knowledge_At_Night_Or_Praying_The_Night_Prayer">Link</a> http://anisabintbenjamin.multiply.com/journal/item/445/Whats_Better_For_The_Student_Of_Knowledge_Seeking_Knowledge_At_Night_Or_Praying_The_Night_Prayer Tue, 8 May 2012 09:05:00 -0000 Seeking Knowledge http://anisabintbenjamin.multiply.com/music/item/1262/Seeking_Knowledge By Mustafa George *The Journey of Shaykh http://anisabintbenjamin.multiply.com/music/item/1262/Seeking_Knowledge Sat, 5 May 2012 22:08:28 -0000 The Importance of Determination and Endeavour http://anisabintbenjamin.multiply.com/music/item/1260/The_Importance_of_Determination_and_Endeavour By Hassan As http://anisabintbenjamin.multiply.com/music/item/1260/The_Importance_of_Determination_and_Endeavour Thu, 3 May 2012 10:22:25 -0000 Difference Between The Believer And The One Who Turns Away From Eemaan http://anisabintbenjamin.multiply.com/journal/item/444/Difference_Between_The_Believer_And_The_One_Who_Turns_Away_From_Eemaan <a class="select" href="http://31097.multiply.com/journal/item/108/Difference_Between_The_Believer_And_The_One_Who_Turns_Away_From_Eemaan">Link</a> http://anisabintbenjamin.multiply.com/journal/item/444/Difference_Between_The_Believer_And_The_One_Who_Turns_Away_From_Eemaan Sat, 28 Apr 2012 19:02:00 -0000 The Dangers of Tabarruj http://anisabintbenjamin.multiply.com/music/item/1256/The_Dangers_of_Tabarruj By Hassan As http://anisabintbenjamin.multiply.com/music/item/1256/The_Dangers_of_Tabarruj Thu, 26 Apr 2012 04:25:28 -0000 Book of Marriage http://anisabintbenjamin.multiply.com/music/item/1253/Book_of_Marriage By Dr. Saleh As http://anisabintbenjamin.multiply.com/music/item/1253/Book_of_Marriage Thu, 26 Apr 2012 01:12:30 -0000 The Rights of the Wife Upon the Husband http://anisabintbenjamin.multiply.com/music/item/1248/The_Rights_of_the_Wife_Upon_the_Husband By Hasan As http://anisabintbenjamin.multiply.com/music/item/1248/The_Rights_of_the_Wife_Upon_the_Husband Tue, 24 Apr 2012 19:02:23 -0000 You Will Not Enjoy the Marriage Until You All Fear Allaah http://anisabintbenjamin.multiply.com/music/item/1246/You_Will_Not_Enjoy_the_Marriage_Until_You_All_Fear_Allaah By Abu Muhammad Al http://anisabintbenjamin.multiply.com/music/item/1246/You_Will_Not_Enjoy_the_Marriage_Until_You_All_Fear_Allaah Tue, 24 Apr 2012 18:38:19 -0000 أنيسة بنت بنجامين http://anisabintbenjamin.multiply.com/links/item/67/67 May this page grow containing beneficial knowledge, http://anisabintbenjamin.multiply.com/links/item/67/67 Mon, 23 Apr 2012 00:54:38 -0000 Repent Before it's Too Late http://anisabintbenjamin.multiply.com/music/item/1238/Repent_Before_its_Too_Late By Hamza Abdur http://anisabintbenjamin.multiply.com/music/item/1238/Repent_Before_its_Too_Late Sun, 15 Apr 2012 21:29:07 -0000 An Occupied Space Cannot Contain Two Opposites http://anisabintbenjamin.multiply.com/journal/item/443/An_Occupied_Space_Cannot_Contain_Two_Opposites A beautiful example of the contents of the Heart by the great scholar, Imaam Ibnul-Qayyim al-Jawziyyah. <blockquote class="quotation"> "It is better for your mouths to be full of pus until it makes it go bad than to be full of poetry." </blockquote>   <img src="http://www.troid.ca/images/bismallah.jpg" alt="Image" title="Image" border="0" height="58" hspace="6" width="200"> For a space to accept what is being put in it, it has to be emptied of the opposite. The same way this is relevant with individuals and objects, it is also true for beliefs and wills. So, if the heart is occupied with loving and believing in falsehood, then it has no space for loving and accepting the truth. Just like if a tongue is busy uttering what does not have benefit, then its owner will not be able to utter what has benefit for him except if he stops talking about what is useless. Also if the different body parts are busy doing what is not obedience then it is not possible to keep them occupied in doing what is obedience except if he (the owner) frees them of the opposite. In the same way, a heart full of loving other than Allaah, wanting him, longing t... http://anisabintbenjamin.multiply.com/journal/item/443/An_Occupied_Space_Cannot_Contain_Two_Opposites Thu, 12 Apr 2012 10:47:00 -0000 Haramain Salaat Recordings http://anisabintbenjamin.multiply.com/links/item/66/Haramain_Salaat_Recordings http://anisabintbenjamin.multiply.com/links/item/66/Haramain_Salaat_Recordings Thu, 5 Apr 2012 14:13:50 -0000 Stay Away From What Many of the Women are Doing Today http://anisabintbenjamin.multiply.com/journal/item/442/Stay_Away_From_What_Many_of_the_Women_are_Doing_Today <h6 class="uiStreamMessage" data-ft="{"type":1}">Shaykh Saalih Al-Fawzaan: “It is upon the woman who fears Allaah and the hereafter to stay away from what many of the women are doing today such as being lackadaisical with the hijaab and easy-going with wearing decorative garments when going outside and being lax with using perfume when going out of the house and intermingling with men and joking with them. Allaah, the Most High, said to His Prophet’s wives: “Then do not be soft in speech, lest he in whose heart there is a disease (of fornication) should be moved with desire. But rather speak in an honorable manner.” [Ahzaab: 32] If a woman has a need to speak to a man that is not one of her mahaarim, she may speak to him, but with a casual tone that has no softness or gentleness in it, and not in a joking or laughing manner. Rather her speech must be ordinary and in accordance with what necessity dictates – i.e. a question and an answer – as per the need only. She must not speak in a tone that appears friendly, lau... http://anisabintbenjamin.multiply.com/journal/item/442/Stay_Away_From_What_Many_of_the_Women_are_Doing_Today Tue, 3 Apr 2012 19:36:00 -0000 Qualities of the Believer By Abu Mujahid Fareed Abdullah http://anisabintbenjamin.multiply.com/video/item/87/Qualities_of_the_Believer_By_Abu_Mujahid_Fareed_Abdullah http://anisabintbenjamin.multiply.com/video/item/87/Qualities_of_the_Believer_By_Abu_Mujahid_Fareed_Abdullah Fri, 30 Mar 2012 11:16:12 -0000 http://salafiradio.org/Salafi_Radio/Listen_Now.html http://anisabintbenjamin.multiply.com/notes/item/43 http://anisabintbenjamin.multiply.com/notes/item/43 Fri, 30 Mar 2012 00:53:38 -0000 Have You Not Seen How Your Lord Dealt With The Owners of the Elephant? http://anisabintbenjamin.multiply.com/journal/item/441/Have_You_Not_Seen_How_Your_Lord_Dealt_With_The_Owners_of_the_Elephant Have You Not Seen How Your Lord Dealt With The Owners of the Elephant?سورة الفيل بِسْمِ اللَّـهِ الرَّ‌حْمَـٰنِ الرَّ‌حِيمِ أَلَمْ تَرَ‌ كَيْفَ فَعَلَ رَ‌بُّكَ بِأَصْحَابِ الْفِيلِ ﴿<a href="http://tanzil.net/#105:1">١</a>﴾ أَلَمْ يَجْعَلْ كَيْدَهُمْ فِي تَضْلِيلٍ ﴿<a href="http://tanzil.net/#105:2">٢</a>﴾ وَأَرْ‌سَلَ عَلَيْهِمْ طَيْرً‌ا أَبَابِيلَ ﴿<a href="http://tanzil.net/#105:3">٣</a>﴾ تَرْ‌مِيهِم بِحِجَارَ‌ةٍ مِّن سِجِّيلٍ ﴿<a href="http://tanzil.net/#105:4">٤</a>﴾ فَجَعَلَهُمْ كَعَصْفٍ مَّأْكُولٍ ﴿<a href="http://tanzil.net/#105:5">٥</a> Surah 105, Al-Fil, of Noble Qur'aanIn the Name of Allaah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful. “Have you not seen how your Lord dealt with the Owners of the Elephant?” “Did He not make their plot go astray?” “And He sent against them birds, in flocks (Ababil).” “Striking them with stones of Sijjil.” “And He made them like empty fields of stalk ('Asf, Ma'kul).” This is one of the favors Allaah did for the Quraysh. He saved them from the People of the Elephant who had tried to tear down the Ka'bah and wipe out all traces of it's existence. Allaah destroyed them, defeated them, thwarted their plans, made their ef... http://anisabintbenjamin.multiply.com/journal/item/441/Have_You_Not_Seen_How_Your_Lord_Dealt_With_The_Owners_of_the_Elephant Thu, 29 Mar 2012 11:57:00 -0000 SO BEWARE OF CONSIDERING AS TOO LONG THE TIME FOR A PRAYER TO BE ANSWERED... http://anisabintbenjamin.multiply.com/journal/item/440/SO_BEWARE_OF_CONSIDERING_AS_TOO_LONG_THE_TIME_FOR_A_PRAYER_TO_BE_ANSWERED... <h6 class="uiStreamMessage" data-ft="{"type":1}"> The Shaikh, the Imaam, the Allaamah, the Shaikh of Islaam, Abul-Faraj Abdur-Rahmaan ibn Ali ibn Muhammad ibn al-Jawzi, said: “I have reflected over an interesting situation: that a calamity may befall a believer and so he supplicates, going to great lengths in doing so, but he sees no sign of an answer. So when despair comes close, at that time his heart is looked at, thus if it is acceptant of the [many] decrees of fate, not having despaired of Allaah the Mighty and Majestic’s Bounty, then in most cases at that time the response is hastened, for it is there that eemaan is qualified, and the devil vanquished, and it is there that a man’s worth is shown. And this has been alluded to in His Saying, the Most High, “… until [even their] messenger and those who believed with him said, “When is the help of Allaah?” [Baqarah 2:214]. And likewise is what happened to Ya’qoob ﻪﯿﻠﻋ مﻼﺴﻟا , for when he lost a son and the situation went on for a long time, he did not despair–and then... http://anisabintbenjamin.multiply.com/journal/item/440/SO_BEWARE_OF_CONSIDERING_AS_TOO_LONG_THE_TIME_FOR_A_PRAYER_TO_BE_ANSWERED... Tue, 27 Mar 2012 22:27:00 -0000 The Path to Becoming a Righteous Woman http://anisabintbenjamin.multiply.com/music/item/1236/The_Path_to_Becoming_a_Righteous_Woman By Abu Yusuf Khaleefah As Salaamu alaikum. I can not post this lecture enough maa sha Allaah. The sisters (including myself) are in need of more talks like this now more than ever. I see our modesty weakening and we are beautifying ourselves and leaving our homes. The brother mentions points on how to attain and maintain modesty (1. Knowing who Allaah is (The All-Seeing, The All-Knowing) 2. Following the Sunnah of the Prophet Salallaahu alaihe was sallam, taking his shyness as an example 3. Reading the biographies of the sahabiyaat and emulating their shyness 4. Keeping good companionship (The person is on the religion of his friend) So if you love the lewd, loud untamed woman, then you will be from them them (if not at first, over time) and that between you and them, someone is giving someone dawah and if you are not changing them then they are changing you. It starts off light...something you didn't do before, you began doing from being built up (spoon-fed). BEWARE! We are not... http://anisabintbenjamin.multiply.com/music/item/1236/The_Path_to_Becoming_a_Righteous_Woman Fri, 23 Mar 2012 10:09:00 -0000 Befriending those who commit sins http://anisabintbenjamin.multiply.com/journal/item/439/Befriending_those_who_commit_sins The second question of Fatwa no. 17324 Q : What is the appropriate limit of al-Wala' wal-Bara' (loyalty and disassociation for allah's Sake) as regards Muslims who commit sins such as singing, shaving the beard, smoking, snuffing, Isbal (lengthening and trailing clothing below the ankles), etc.? Must we boycott them if they do not respond to advice? A: It is not permissible to deal with those who commit sins in public unless you aim at counseling them, knowing that your advice will affect them positively. They should be loved in proportion to the strength of their belief in Allah, and they should be resented in proportion to the seriousness of their sins. If they do not accept the advice, they should be abandoned according to Shari`ah (Islamic law) until they repent to Allah. May Allah grant us success. May peace and blessin... http://anisabintbenjamin.multiply.com/journal/item/439/Befriending_those_who_commit_sins Thu, 22 Mar 2012 11:38:00 -0000 Envy and Jealousy http://anisabintbenjamin.multiply.com/music/item/1232/Envy_and_Jealousy By: Abu Khadeejah Abdul Waahid ~Khutbah~ Shawwal 29, http://anisabintbenjamin.multiply.com/music/item/1232/Envy_and_Jealousy Tue, 20 Mar 2012 11:41:06 -0000 Loving One Another For The Pleasure Of Allah (The Harm Of Differing) http://anisabintbenjamin.multiply.com/music/item/1230/Loving_One_Another_For_The_Pleasure_Of_Allah_The_Harm_Of_Differing By Abu Uwais Abdullah Alee *This lecture was done in Atlanta, GA. We are in more need of this lecture today than ever before. We ask Allah for forgiveness, guidance, safety and well being.* for download go to: http://anisabintbenjamin.multiply.com/music/item/1230/Loving_One_Another_For_The_Pleasure_Of_Allah_The_Harm_Of_Differing Fri, 16 Mar 2012 10:44:08 -0000 Decency In Islam http://anisabintbenjamin.multiply.com/music/item/1226/Decency_In_Islam By Taalib http://anisabintbenjamin.multiply.com/music/item/1226/Decency_In_Islam Sun, 11 Mar 2012 12:13:55 -0000 Exerting Oneself http://anisabintbenjamin.multiply.com/journal/item/438/Exerting_Oneself_ <h6 class="uiStreamMessage" data-ft="{"type":1}">Narrated Aishah (Radi Allaahu anha): The Prophet (SalAllaahu alaihe was sallam) said, " Such a person as recites the Qur'an and masters it by heart, will be with the (angels) honorable and obedient (in heaven). And such a person as exerts himself to learn the Qur'an by heart, and recites it with great difficulty, will have a double reward."</h6><h6 style="font-style: italic;" class="uiStreamMessage" data-ft="{"type":1}">[Sahih al Bukhari hadeeth #4937, The Book of Commentary]</h6> http://anisabintbenjamin.multiply.com/journal/item/438/Exerting_Oneself_ Fri, 9 Mar 2012 08:57:00 -0000 Beware of Your Children's Friends http://anisabintbenjamin.multiply.com/music/item/1223/Beware_of_Your_Childrens_Friends By Abu Suhailah Umar http://anisabintbenjamin.multiply.com/music/item/1223/Beware_of_Your_Childrens_Friends Thu, 8 Mar 2012 07:47:34 -0000